Asking Eric: Now I see why people abandon friends who have kids
Briefly

Your friend is reaching out to you, inviting you to do things together, including you in the new rhythms of life. That's maintenance.
Can I accept this? I'm not trying to be too tough love, here. I get what you're saying. Sometimes you want to have a conversation without having to spell out swear words.
You can try a direct ask, i.e., I love your kids, but I've been hoping for one-on-one time.
If the answer remains not right now, however, it's important to respect it even if you don't like it.
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