Your friend is reaching out to you, inviting you to do things together, including you in the new rhythms of life. That's maintenance.
Can I accept this? I'm not trying to be too tough love, here. I get what you're saying. Sometimes you want to have a conversation without having to spell out swear words.
You can try a direct ask, i.e., I love your kids, but I've been hoping for one-on-one time.
If the answer remains not right now, however, it's important to respect it even if you don't like it.
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