Asking Eric: My mother has an inappropriate connection with my ex-boyfriend
Briefly

The letter addresses a troubling situation where a woman feels uncomfortable with her mother's ongoing financial relationship with her ex-boyfriend, who she broke up with five years ago. Despite cutting off contact with her, he continues to rely on her mother for financial support and other resources. The letter details the mother's justification for helping him, suggesting a sense of indebtedness, which the writer contests. There are concerns of potential financial exploitation, prompting the recommendation to contact Adult Protective Services if needed.
It's especially troubling that your ex has cut off contact with you but still maintains a one-sided financial relationship with your mother.
If you suspect your mother is being exploited financially, contact your local Adult Protective Services Program.
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