Enmeshed Families: When Control Is Disguised as Closeness
Briefly

Enmeshment is a dysfunctional family dynamic characterized by blurred emotional boundaries and a lack of independence among members. This often arises when parents depend on their children for emotional support, leading to unhealthy relationships. In enmeshed families, loyalty and emotional closeness take precedence over autonomy, resulting in children feeling responsible for their parents' emotional needs. Over time, this can inhibit an individual's ability to form their own identity and pursue personal goals. Developing boundaries and encouraging independence can help mitigate the effects of enmeshment.
Enmeshment can blur emotional boundaries, creating a dynamic where relationships lack appropriate boundaries and strong emotional separation among family members, leading to a dysfunctional family structure.
In healthy families, a balance exists between connection and independence, whereas in enmeshed families, loyalty and emotional closeness overshadow the need for personal autonomy and self-direction.
Enmeshment often begins in childhood when a parent relies too heavily on their child for emotional support, potentially due to the parent's own feelings of loneliness or insecurity.
The effects of enmeshment manifest in children feeling obligated to meet their parents' emotional needs, often at the expense of their own individuality and goals.
Read at Psychology Today
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