The letter describes a woman's nostalgic feelings toward a past friend from the '70s, whom she attempts to reconnect with years later. Despite her efforts, which include reaching out through social media and visiting her home, the friend shows signs of discomfort and even blocks her on Facebook. A response from the advice columnist suggests that the reconnecting efforts are not welcomed, warning against making such personal approaches without mutual consent. The columnist encourages the letter writer to reflect and let go, citing societal pressures that may have distorted her perception of their past dynamic.
Something else is going on in the background here... the Facebook block, the personal interaction and your other friend's response suggest that this plot line is not a shared goal.
Some of this behavior is concerning... going to her house, for instance, is a step too far. So, please check your thinking and run ideas by your friends before you do them.
There’s a version of this scenario that plays out like a movie... but the behavior suggests that it’s time to let this connection go.
Some of the energy you wanted to have in the past, but couldn't because of societal pressures, skewed this interaction.
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