In this column, a reader expresses frustration about her mother-in-law’s negativity regarding her attempts to conceive, particularly after experiencing a miscarriage. Although the mother-in-law was initially sympathetic, her subsequent remarks about the burdens of child-rearing have caused tension. Miss Manners advises patience, suggesting that the reader wait until the pregnancy is more certain before sharing the news, as the mother-in-law's perspective may improve once she learns of the pregnancy. The second query concerns the usage of RSVP, with Miss Manners providing clarity on its dual purpose in invitations.
Miss Manners acknowledges the hurtful remarks made by the mother-in-law about the difficulty of raising children, underscoring the lack of understanding some people have in their attempts to comfort.
Miss Manners suggests that it’s wise to delay sharing the pregnancy news until it’s obvious, as opinions might change for the better once the pregnancy is visible.
The letter writer expresses their frustrations with the mixed messages surrounding RSVP etiquette, questioning the grammar of the term and its implied meanings.
Miss Manners clarifies that RSVP is indeed both a noun and a verb, indicating it’s a formal request for a response to an invitation, regardless of acceptance.
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