The article discusses various social etiquette dilemmas addressed by Miss Manners, focusing on appropriate responses to perceived disrespect. A reader expresses frustration over a co-worker using the phrase 'Good girl' when acknowledging her work, deeming it inappropriate in a professional context. Miss Manners advises that it’s crucial to assert oneself and communicate feelings about the language used. Additionally, the piece covers handling a social faux pas made during a conversation about cancer, suggesting a thoughtful approach during a lunch meet-up. Lastly, it touches on navigating awkwardness when declining to share occupation details.
I'm sure you mean it kindly, and I'm delighted that you appreciate my work. But this is my job, and when you say Good girl, it makes me feel as though I am doing you a favor.
Make those loose plans firm. Then assess the damage at lunch. If your friend seems chilly or distant, Miss Manners suggests you cautiously bring up the incident and apologize.
It seems like a way of commenting on my appearance, and I think it is meant to be complimentary. But when I simply say No, there is an awkward silence that follows.
You will have learned a lesson for next time. Assess the situation and respond appropriately, using the experience to inform future interactions.
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