The article addresses two separate queries regarding social etiquette. The first question discusses whether one should dress more formally while on a private deck visible to a few neighbors, to which Miss Manners replies that modesty is key, and a housecoat is acceptable. The second question explores how a financially independent widowed woman can manage well-meaning friends who insist on paying for her meals, potentially creating discomfort and obligation. Miss Manners suggests that she can gracefully navigate this by reciprocating and indicating her independence.
A housecoat and sandals sound pretty tame compared to the states of undress so often flaunted in full neighborly view.
The polite way to help your friends understand the inconvenience and embarrassment they are inflicting upon you by offering to buy your dinner would be to reciprocate.
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