The article discusses a host's concern about a friend's tendency to dictate the flow of events during their gatherings. The host enjoys entertaining but feels undermined when a specific guest interrupts and takes control, even in casual settings like a dinner party. To address this, Miss Manners advises hosts to assert their roles by applying a rule from theater etiquette: decisions about the evening should be made by the host only, while feedback from guests should be given privately and respectfully.
"There is a longstanding theater etiquette rule that states: There is only one director. Writers, producers and actors with feedback must filter their notes through said director."
"Miss Manners suggests you apply this rule to your dinner parties, indicating that while you appreciate input, it's essential that decisions come from the host."
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