I Made a Simple, Affordable Request for My Birthday. You'd Think I Asked My Husband for the Moon.
Briefly

The letter expresses deep frustration from a woman who feels her contributions to her marriage are undervalued. After years of asking for a simple birthday dinner downtown, her husband frequently disappoints her promises but counters with his own perspective when confronted. This dynamic leaves her feeling like an unappreciated 'sidekick' in a long-term relationship. Addressing this imbalance and communication issues is key to moving forward and fostering mutual appreciation.
It sounds like you've put up with 15 years of being ignored, your contributions to your household and marriage taken for granted.
After more months of me begging to go to the restaurant, he asked me what I wanted for my next birthday.
Read at Slate Magazine
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