Harriette Cole: I went to his workplace, but I was too nervous to introduce myself
Briefly

The article addresses a reader's anxiety about meeting someone online after two years of communication. The reader struggles with social interaction and expresses fears about loneliness. The advice focuses on taking a simple first step: inviting the person for a casual meet-up like tea or ice cream. The recommendation is to have no agenda, focus on the enjoyment of the moment, and avoid overwhelming thoughts. Emphasis is placed on gradually building a connection rather than forcing emotional expectations, which could be off-putting.
Don't place all of your emotions at this man's feet that would be off-putting. Instead, start by telling yourself that you would like to meet him in person.
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