If Thanksgiving is a cook's holiday, then Friendsgiving is for the hosts. It's a gathering centered around community and offers every guest the chance to contribute, whether it's a dish or a drink, a centerpiece or a playlist. Here, we've gathered the best of our kitchen wisdom to answer your pressing alt-Turkey Day questions, shared decor picks fit for a feast, and of course, put together a menu that delivers on classic flavors while leaving elbow room for potluck dishes too.