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Psychology
fromEntrepreneur
22 hours agoWhen Did Escapism Become Leadership's Go-To Strategy?
Avoidance erodes trust and long-term results; empathy is a strategic advantage for building resilient teams.
Careers
fromFast Company
1 day agoNo, you can't upskill your culture. But you can upskill your leaders
Unconscious communication habits significantly impact organizational culture and employee engagement.
fromPsychology Today
2 days agoHow Mistakes Springboard Conscientious People's Growth
Many mistakes move us forward more than backward. Conscientious people often experience a springboard effect following mistakes, whereby fixing the mistakes accelerates growth faster than if they'd never made any missteps.
Productivity
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoI'm 37 and I finally understand why I keep saying yes to things I want to say no to - psychology calls it "fawning" and once you see it you can't unsee it - Silicon Canals
Fawning behavior leads to difficulty in saying no, causing resentment despite self-awareness and understanding of its irrationality.
#mindset
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
16 hours agoIf you've been trying to change your life and keep ending up in the same patterns, the problem probably isn't the plan, it's that the part of you making the plan is the same part of you that built the life you're trying to change - Silicon Canals
Current mindset limits the ability to create meaningful change; the same self cannot solve the problems it created.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoThe hardest thing about healing isn't the work itself. It's the quiet grief of realizing how many years you spent believing the problem was you, when the actual problem was an environment that needed you to believe that in order to keep functioning - Silicon Canals
Family systems may require a child to remain unwell for their own functionality, leading to grief and loss when the child realizes their true self.
fromOver the Monster
2 days agoAre the Red Sox soft? Their pitiful play in poor weather sure seems to suggest so
We gotta start hitting the ball out of the ballpark. I think a lot of guys are gonna start to heat up. I was actually talking to folks from the other side, and they said after this cold weather you're gonna see a lot more home runs.
Boston Red Sox
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
21 hours agoResearch suggests the habit of deferring happiness - 'I'll enjoy life when the kids leave, when I retire, when things calm down' - isn't patience, it's a pattern that simply moves the horizon forward no matter how much you achieve - Silicon Canals
Delaying happiness for future rewards leads to increased misery in the present without guaranteeing future satisfaction.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoPsychology says the unhappiest men in any room aren't the ones who complain - they're the ones who've become so skilled at performing contentment that they've lost the ability to locate their own actual feelings beneath the performance - Silicon Canals
Many men mask their true feelings behind a facade of competence and ease, leading to emotional disconnection and confusion about their own emotions.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoSome people don't stay quiet in arguments because they're calm, they stay quiet because they ran the math years ago and concluded that saying the thing costs more than swallowing it, and they've been paying the cheaper price so long they forgot it was a choice - Silicon Canals
Silence in arguments often results from an automatic cost-benefit analysis rather than emotional mastery or composure.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoSome people who appear completely unbothered by criticism haven't stopped caring what others think. They've just moved the audience inside, and now they answer to a version of themselves that never gives them a day off - Silicon Canals
Internalized criticism often masquerades as resilience, leading to preemptive self-critique before external feedback is received.
#confidence
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoPsychology says people who genuinely know their worth don't announce it or defend it, they operate with a quiet certainty that makes negotiation, justification, and proving themselves feel like a foreign language - Silicon Canals
Genuine confidence stems from self-awareness, not the need to broadcast one's worth or achievements.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoPsychology says the reason so many high-achievers can't enjoy their own wins isn't imposter syndrome, it's that achievement was the language they were taught love was spoken in, and they've never learned to receive love in any other form - Silicon Canals
High-achievers often feel unsatisfied with their accomplishments due to a childhood belief that achievement equals worth.
#self-discipline
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoPsychology suggests people who follow through on small promises to themselves aren't just building habits - they're constructing the internal evidence that they can be trusted, which is the actual foundation of lasting self-discipline - Silicon Canals
Self-discipline is shaped by accumulated evidence of personal commitments rather than mere willpower.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThe cruelest myth about self-discipline is that you have to feel ready - you don't, you never will, and the people who figured that out earlier simply have more years of evidence that the feeling eventually follows the action - Silicon Canals
Self-discipline begins with action, not feelings of readiness or motivation.
fromPsychology Today
2 months agoFour Strategies That Improve Pain and Athletic Performance
You feel an unpleasant sensation - like a sinking feeling of anxiety in your stomach as the game begins, and you think, "I'm anxious. Here we go again. I'm about to blow it." You feel your pain increasing, and the thoughts churn: "Great. I'll probably miss a whole week of work." Imagined catastrophes fill your mind. Manage these thoughts with the 3 C's: Catch it, Check it, and Change it.
Mindfulness
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