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Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
9 hours ago

The quietest kind of exhaustion belongs to people who translate themselves into a different version for every social context in a single day, and by evening they aren't tired from activity, they're tired from the number of identities they had to maintain - Silicon Canals

Identity-switching fatigue is a modern epidemic caused by the need to perform different roles throughout the day.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 hour ago

9 quiet signs someone grew up poor even if they are now wealthy and never talk about where they came from - Silicon Canals

People who grew up poor may struggle with money despite financial security, showing signs of anxiety, waste aversion, and independence.
fromPsychology Today
20 hours ago

Duty vs. Selfhood: Family Dynamics in the South Asian Diaspora

Kalpana recalls the emotional abuse her mother endured and how she and her brother absorbed the fallout. These early experiences shaped her sense of safety and belonging in ways that lingered in her adulthood.
Relationships
UK politics
fromIndependent
9 hours ago

'No Irish need apply': New research shows emigrants seeking a better life in England faced decades of discrimination

Anti-Irish job adverts were prevalent, particularly after the famine, leading to poverty and discrimination for Irish immigrants in England.
#relocation
Parenting
fromwww.businessinsider.com
4 days ago

We left the US and moved to Spain almost a year ago. My young kids handled it better than I ever could've imagined.

Children can adapt positively to moving abroad when involved in the process and supported emotionally by their parents.
Parenting
fromwww.businessinsider.com
4 days ago

We left the US and moved to Spain almost a year ago. My young kids handled it better than I ever could've imagined.

Children can adapt positively to moving abroad when involved in the process and supported emotionally by their parents.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

The people who were praised for being mature as children and punished for being needy as adults, and the decades it takes to untangle which one was actually true - Silicon Canals

Maturity in children often reflects adult expectations, leading to long-term consequences for the child's emotional development.
Retirement
fromGamintraveler
1 hour ago

The Kids Left And Now What: Why Empty Nesters Are The Fastest Growing Expat Group In Europe

Empty nesters are increasingly considering moving to Europe, driven by practical income and lifestyle changes rather than just retirement.
fromAbove the Law
16 hours ago

Why Your Story, Engagement, And Empathy Matter More Than Ever - Above the Law

Trust begins with realness. When lawyers share their story and the reason behind their work, clients see themselves reflected in that narrative. Clients are not simply hiring legal skill; they are looking for alignment, empathy, and shared values. Storytelling bridges that gap.
Online marketing
#immigration
NYC politics
fromCity Limits
4 days ago

Opinion: Rethinking Immigrant Integration in NYC

Building low-cost bridges for immigrants leads to recognized credentials and stable work, enhancing their contributions to the economy.
California
fromKqed
6 days ago

'No Hope for Someone Like Me': Immigrants in California Pull Back From Filing Taxes | KQED

Immigrant communities in California face significant declines in tax filings due to shrinking refunds and distrust in the IRS.
NYC politics
fromCity Limits
4 days ago

Opinion: Rethinking Immigrant Integration in NYC

Building low-cost bridges for immigrants leads to recognized credentials and stable work, enhancing their contributions to the economy.
California
fromKqed
6 days ago

'No Hope for Someone Like Me': Immigrants in California Pull Back From Filing Taxes | KQED

Immigrant communities in California face significant declines in tax filings due to shrinking refunds and distrust in the IRS.
Austin
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

The Emotional Cost of Becoming Someone New

Coping with life changes during a Ph.D. journey involves financial adjustments, emotional challenges, and personal growth.
fromThe Village Voice
17 hours ago

Na Ponta da Lingua and the Brazilian-American Stories Still Waiting to Be Told - The Village Voice

"When they think of anything regarding Latino films, people automatically think of Mexico, or any other country, but you never think about Brazilian or Brazilian immigrants, or Brazilians in the U.S."
Independent films
Germany news
fromThe Local Germany
1 day ago

TELL US: What are the biggest problems facing foreign residents in Germany?

International residents in Germany face various challenges in 2026, including bureaucracy, immigration, work, taxes, and housing.
SF parents
fromThe Nation
23 hours ago

We Need to Tear Down the Adoption Industry

A US military raid in Afghanistan resulted in the death of a family, with conflicting accounts of the event and the fate of a missing infant.
Boston real estate
fromTravel + Leisure
1 day ago

This U.S. State Was Just Named the Best Place to Achieve the American Dream-and It's in the Northeast

New Jersey ranks highest for achieving the American dream, based on factors like home ownership, education, and income.
Writing
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Loving My Mother, Unlearning Myself

Love and pressure coexist in mother-daughter relationships, shaping identity and fueling personal growth through grief and complex emotions.
California
fromKqed
1 week ago

Undocumented Families Are Stepping Back From the Tax System This Year | KQED

Los Angeles Unified School District reached a tentative agreement with unions, allowing 400,000 students to return to school and avoiding a strike.
#migration
Women in technology
fromWSOC TV
2 days ago

More Americans are considering moving abroad permanently

More Americans are considering permanent relocation abroad, with negative net migration reported for the first time in years.
Madrid food
fromwww.theguardian.com
9 hours ago

Spain champions migration's benefits with regularisation scheme but queues are long

Spain's new decree allows undocumented migrants to regularize their status, benefiting at least 500,000 people.
Women in technology
fromWSOC TV
2 days ago

More Americans are considering moving abroad permanently

More Americans are considering permanent relocation abroad, with negative net migration reported for the first time in years.
Madrid food
fromwww.theguardian.com
9 hours ago

Spain champions migration's benefits with regularisation scheme but queues are long

Spain's new decree allows undocumented migrants to regularize their status, benefiting at least 500,000 people.
Philosophy
fromThe Village Voice
1 day ago

Historic Preservation as Cultural Self-Reflection: Reclaiming Stories, Identity, and Meaning in a Changing Urban Landscape - The Village Voice

Historic preservation is a cultural practice that shapes community identity and values, rather than merely a technical effort to protect old buildings.
Careers
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Discomfort Is the Key to Culturally Competent Leadership

Culturally competent leaders enhance team performance by embracing humility, adaptability, and ongoing self-awareness.
Los Angeles
fromLos Angeles Times
4 days ago

How gangs connected to India are terrorizing a California immigrant community

Threats from gangsters are deterring athletes from participating in Kabaddi tournaments, reflecting a larger issue of violence targeting Indian and Punjabi Sikhs in California.
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Knowing Themselves Helps LGBTQ+ Teens Thrive

Research indicates that LGBTQ+ teens entering high school experience significantly higher anxiety symptoms compared to their cisgender heterosexual peers, highlighting the unique challenges they face during this transition.
LGBT
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago

I Did My Aunt and Uncle a Huge Favor. Now I'm Being Treated Like an Evil Landlord.

I inherited my house while I was still in college. I had no clue what to do as a homeowner so I invited my 'aunt and uncle' to live with me after they got priced out of their apartment.
Law
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

The reason some men never move forward in life has nothing to do with motivation or discipline - it's that they built their entire identity around a version of themselves that stopped being true years ago, and starting over feels like admitting it was all wasted - Silicon Canals

The identity had become so central to who I thought I was that letting it go felt like admitting that entire chapter of my life had been pointless.
Bootstrapping
LA real estate
fromCalifornia Post
6 days ago

How so many Iranian refugees got wealthy in Los Angeles

Iranians in Los Angeles thrive economically while their counterparts in Iran face severe financial struggles and repression.
#parenting
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 hour ago

Children who grew up in the 1960s and 70s without structured schedules didn't just learn independence - they built an internal compass that modern children, supervised into adolescence, are rarely given the chance to develop - Silicon Canals

Children today have less freedom and fewer opportunities to solve problems independently compared to previous generations.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
2 days ago

We Moved Across the Country With Our Two Boys. I'm Worried About the Way They've Chosen to "Adjust."

Encouraging children to make friends outside of school can be challenging, especially when they are content with existing relationships at home.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

How Parenting Advice on Anxiety Misses Key Family Patterns

Helping children face fears requires parents to change their responses, not just focus on fixing the child.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago

I Had Kids Later in Life. Now I'm Learning the Hard Way What That Means for My Family.

Life is unpredictable; waiting for perfect conditions to have children may lead to regrets about family size and timing.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 hour ago

Children who grew up in the 1960s and 70s without structured schedules didn't just learn independence - they built an internal compass that modern children, supervised into adolescence, are rarely given the chance to develop - Silicon Canals

Children today have less freedom and fewer opportunities to solve problems independently compared to previous generations.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
2 days ago

We Moved Across the Country With Our Two Boys. I'm Worried About the Way They've Chosen to "Adjust."

Encouraging children to make friends outside of school can be challenging, especially when they are content with existing relationships at home.
Parenting
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 day ago

How can you make a student happy? Drop them at university and make a lightning-quick exit | Zoe Williams

The bittersweet nature of parenting evolves as children grow, highlighting the tension between care and independence.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

How Parenting Advice on Anxiety Misses Key Family Patterns

Helping children face fears requires parents to change their responses, not just focus on fixing the child.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago

I Had Kids Later in Life. Now I'm Learning the Hard Way What That Means for My Family.

Life is unpredictable; waiting for perfect conditions to have children may lead to regrets about family size and timing.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

5 things people who grew up lower middle class quietly do as adults that look strange until you understand the logic behind them - Silicon Canals

Lower middle class upbringing shapes adults' financial behaviors and anxieties, leading to habits like maintaining hidden emergency accounts.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Most people don't realize that the sharpest loneliness in midlife isn't having no friends - it's having friends who knew an earlier version of you and have no interest in meeting who you've become - Silicon Canals

Loneliness in midlife often stems from friends not updating their understanding of each other, rather than a lack of social connections.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says there's a specific version of loneliness that only shows up in retirement - not the absence of colleagues or the silence of mornings, but the slow understanding that the version of you the world was interested in was the one producing, performing, solving, and the version sitting at home in a quiet kitchen is someone the world has gently agreed to stop asking about - Silicon Canals

Retirement loneliness stems from losing one's identity and purpose, not just from missing social connections.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Why Hybrid Sovereignty Starts Inside

Hybrid sovereignty connects strategic autonomy to the cognitive and ethical architecture of people, emphasizing the importance of human judgment in an AI-driven world.
UK politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 days ago

How Reform is exposing the reality of Scotland's views on immigration and identity

Reform UK is gaining support in Scotland, filling the gap left by the Scottish Conservatives, especially in traditional Tory/SNP battlegrounds.
#friendship
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says people who reach their 60s without a large circle of friends aren't lonely - they've just stopped pretending to enjoy the kind of company that drained them for most of their lives - Silicon Canals

Popularity does not equate to happiness; meaningful connections often outweigh the number of friends.
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago
Relationships

People don't stay in friendships they've outgrown because they're weak - they stay because identity is bound up in being the kind of person who doesn't abandon people - Silicon Canals

People stay in outgrown friendships due to their identity being tied to the idea of not leaving, not out of cowardice or weakness.
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago
Psychology

I'm in my thirties and I finally understand that the friendships I lost weren't lost because I changed. They were lost because I stopped performing the version of me that made the relationship possible, and nobody told me that was what had been holding it together - Silicon Canals

Friendships often end not due to change, but when one person stops the emotional labor that sustains them.
Writing
fromwww.businessinsider.com
3 days ago

I became friends with a woman 40 years older than me. She taught me how to live.

A friendship flourished between two writers with a 40-year age difference, united by their passion for storytelling.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says people who reach their 60s without a large circle of friends aren't lonely - they've just stopped pretending to enjoy the kind of company that drained them for most of their lives - Silicon Canals

Popularity does not equate to happiness; meaningful connections often outweigh the number of friends.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

People don't stay in friendships they've outgrown because they're weak - they stay because identity is bound up in being the kind of person who doesn't abandon people - Silicon Canals

People stay in outgrown friendships due to their identity being tied to the idea of not leaving, not out of cowardice or weakness.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

I'm in my thirties and I finally understand that the friendships I lost weren't lost because I changed. They were lost because I stopped performing the version of me that made the relationship possible, and nobody told me that was what had been holding it together - Silicon Canals

Friendships often end not due to change, but when one person stops the emotional labor that sustains them.
fromIndependent
5 days ago

Modern Morals: My husband has just been let go from his fourth job in five years - I'm running out of patience. What can I do?

My husband has just been let go from his fourth job in five years. The first time it happened was during Covid when he was laid off, but it seemed to start a pattern.
Careers
Parenting
fromIndependent
9 hours ago

New dads open up about feeling isolated: 'You are planning around nap and meal times so it's hard to stay connected with people'

The initial months of parenthood can be challenging for fathers, leading to feelings of isolation.
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
1 day ago

21 Adults Over 30 Who Live With Their Parents Are Revealing How It's Going

Living with parents after 30 is common and should not be a source of shame.
#loneliness
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago
Psychology

Psychology says the loneliest form of love isn't being unloved its being adored for a version of yourself you've been performing so long that the real you has started to feel like the imposter - Silicon Canals

The worst loneliness is being loved for a false self that no longer exists.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

The epidemic isn't loneliness - it's the number of people who've been lonely so long they've stopped registering it as loneliness and started calling it personality - Silicon Canals

Loneliness can be misinterpreted as independence or preference, leading to a lack of recognition of the feeling itself.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says the loneliest form of love isn't being unloved its being adored for a version of yourself you've been performing so long that the real you has started to feel like the imposter - Silicon Canals

The worst loneliness is being loved for a false self that no longer exists.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

The epidemic isn't loneliness - it's the number of people who've been lonely so long they've stopped registering it as loneliness and started calling it personality - Silicon Canals

Loneliness can be misinterpreted as independence or preference, leading to a lack of recognition of the feeling itself.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

How to Talk About Childhood Issues Without Blaming the Parents

Unresolved parental trauma can manifest in children's psychiatric symptoms, perpetuating trauma across generations unless actively addressed.
UK politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

I feel like I'm losing her': the families torn apart by older relatives going far right

Graham's mother underwent a political transformation during the Covid pandemic, becoming radicalized and supporting extreme right views online.
fromThe Conversation
5 days ago

How Islamophobic rhetoric leaves an impact on the mental health of Muslim Americans

A study by the Center for the Study of Organized Hate found that the average number of Islamophobic posts jumped from 2,000 to 6,000 each day on X alone in the first six days of the conflict.
Philosophy
SF parents
fromJezebel
1 week ago

Wife of Dreamer Detained by ICE Speaks Out: 'He's Done Everything Right'

Juan Chavez Velasco, a DACA recipient, was detained by ICE while delivering breast milk for his newborn daughter, raising concerns about his family's future.
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

I've spent my entire life being described as "the strong one" - and last month I sat in my car in a parking lot and cried for 45 minutes, and the thing that made me cry hardest was that there was no one to call - Silicon Canals

Feeling isolated and vulnerable can be overwhelming, especially when one has always been the strong support for others.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

The day I stopped waiting for my children to make me feel appreciated was the day I finally understood that I had spent thirty years confusing their love for me with their ability to express it - Silicon Canals

Understanding love's expression can liberate us from unmet expectations in relationships.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Speaking and Being: Languages and Experiences Are Linked

Metaphors influence perceptions and behaviors through embodied cognition, affecting social proximity and honesty in various environments.
fromwww.npr.org
3 weeks ago

Homesick in a foreign country, a teenager meets a lifelong friend

"I could understand the language somewhat, but I was terrible about speaking it. My accent was terrible. People could not understand me," Deiaco-Smith said.
Arts
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

I'm 66 and my adult son called me last Sunday just to ask how I was - no favor, no crisis, no reason - and I didn't know how to have that conversation because I couldn't remember the last time anyone asked just to check, and I was so unprepared I turned the conversation back to him within two minutes because being asked about myself had apparently become something I don't know how to receive anymore - Silicon Canals

Men often struggle to express their feelings due to societal conditioning, leading to a sense of invisibility in their personal lives.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Why So Many Men Never Leave Home (and What It Costs Them)

One in six men without a college degree lives with their parents, impacting their social skills and labor force participation.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says the most isolating part of getting older isn't having fewer people around you - it's having fewer people who knew you when you were whole and fast and full of plans, because the version of you that exists in other people's memory is shrinking at the same rate as the guest list, and one day you'll be the only person alive who remembers what you were capable of - Silicon Canals

The hardest part of aging is losing connections to those who remember different versions of ourselves.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

The people who seem to have endless patience with difficult family members aren't necessarily more forgiving. Many of them long ago concluded that the emotional cost of asking for change was higher than the cost of absorbing the behavior, and they've been paying the cheaper price for so long they forgot there was ever a choice. - Silicon Canals

Conflict avoidance is often mistaken for patience, but it can lead to relationship breakdown and is linked to anxiety and attachment insecurity.
#racism
Social justice
fromSlate Magazine
4 weeks ago

I Was Raised to Be Accepting. Yet, I Find Myself Battling Strange New Thoughts About Immigrants.

Acknowledging and confronting personal prejudices is a crucial step towards becoming a better ally and challenging racism.
Social justice
fromSlate Magazine
4 weeks ago

I Always Thought I Was an Accepting Person. Then an Influx of Immigrants Moved In-and My Reaction Startled Me.

Acknowledging and confronting personal prejudices is a crucial step towards becoming a better ally.
Social justice
fromSlate Magazine
4 weeks ago

I Was Raised to Be Accepting. Yet, I Find Myself Battling Strange New Thoughts About Immigrants.

Acknowledging and confronting personal prejudices is a crucial step towards becoming a better ally and challenging racism.
Social justice
fromSlate Magazine
4 weeks ago

I Always Thought I Was an Accepting Person. Then an Influx of Immigrants Moved In-and My Reaction Startled Me.

Acknowledging and confronting personal prejudices is a crucial step towards becoming a better ally.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 66 and I grew up in a house where my father worked sixty-hour weeks and never once told me he was proud of me - and I did the exact same thing to my sons before I realized the silence wasn't strength, it was a pattern I'd inherited like the color of my eyes - Silicon Canals

Emotional expression in father-son relationships can be deeply affected by generational patterns of communication.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 days ago

I was bullied when I was young and now find it very hard to make friends | Ask Annalisa Barbieri

Bullying in adolescence can have lasting effects on confidence and friendships in adulthood.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

Why High Achievers Can Feel Lost After Success

The pursuit of goals often feels more fulfilling than the achievement itself, leading to feelings of emptiness post-success.
#masculinity
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

I want to say something that my generation rarely says out loud: being tough your whole life doesn't actually protect you from loneliness - it just means you're better at hiding it from everyone, including yourself - Silicon Canals

Being tough can lead to loneliness and isolation, as it prevents genuine connections and vulnerability.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

I grew up in a family where asking for help was the same as admitting weakness - and now I'm 66 and sitting alone with problems I don't know how to solve because I never learned how to say "I'm struggling" - Silicon Canals

Asking for help is often perceived as a weakness, rooted in deep-seated beliefs about masculinity and self-reliance.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

I want to say something that my generation rarely says out loud: being tough your whole life doesn't actually protect you from loneliness - it just means you're better at hiding it from everyone, including yourself - Silicon Canals

Being tough can lead to loneliness and isolation, as it prevents genuine connections and vulnerability.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

I grew up in a family where asking for help was the same as admitting weakness - and now I'm 66 and sitting alone with problems I don't know how to solve because I never learned how to say "I'm struggling" - Silicon Canals

Asking for help is often perceived as a weakness, rooted in deep-seated beliefs about masculinity and self-reliance.
Parenting
fromLGBTQ Nation
2 days ago

Nonbinary Parents' Day highlights highs and lows nonbinary parents face year round - LGBTQ Nation

Nonbinary Parents' Day highlights the lack of recognition and acceptance for nonbinary parents in society.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

There's a specific kind of person who volunteers the embarrassing story about themselves before anyone else can bring it up, and it isn't self-deprecation. It's copyright. If they tell it first, they get to decide what it means. - Silicon Canals

Claiming the narrative of an embarrassing story prevents others from defining its meaning, rather than demonstrating humility.
#emotional-suppression
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Most men who grew up in the 1960s and 70s were taught that admitting you needed help was a character flaw. Finally, we are discovering that openness has its own kind of strength. - Silicon Canals

Men are taught to suppress emotions, leading to loneliness and health issues.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

My father worked two jobs my entire childhood and I never once heard him complain - and now that I understand what that cost him, I can't stop crying about a man who never cried once - Silicon Canals

Silence can be a heavy burden, leading to unexpressed needs and emotional suppression that negatively impacts health and longevity.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Most men who grew up in the 1960s and 70s were taught that admitting you needed help was a character flaw. Finally, we are discovering that openness has its own kind of strength. - Silicon Canals

Men are taught to suppress emotions, leading to loneliness and health issues.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

My father worked two jobs my entire childhood and I never once heard him complain - and now that I understand what that cost him, I can't stop crying about a man who never cried once - Silicon Canals

Silence can be a heavy burden, leading to unexpressed needs and emotional suppression that negatively impacts health and longevity.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
3 days ago

My Mom Expects All Her Grandkids to Keep Up a Birthday Tradition. My Son Broke It-And She's Gone on Strike.

Traditions can create expectations that may lead to misunderstandings and disappointment within family dynamics.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

How Social Class Shapes Identity

Social class influences identity and emotional well-being, often unnoticed, leading to anxiety and low self-esteem when transitioning between classes.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

I realized this year that every relationship I've stayed too long in was one where I had to be quieter to make it work - Silicon Canals

Compromising in relationships can lead to diminishing one's authentic self, resulting in a quieter, less expressive version of oneself.
Wellness
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

What Americans Can Learn From Immigrants

Prioritizing relationships, shared meals, and community over efficiency significantly increases happiness and well-being across all age groups.
Relationships
fromwww.businessinsider.com
5 days ago

I'm in my 30s, living with my family instead of my partner of nearly a decade. The tough choice has paid off.

Living with family has strengthened bonds and provided financial freedom while preparing for future homeownership.
Mental health
fromenglish.elpais.com
6 days ago

Toxic relationships (especially in the family or at work) accelerate aging

Toxic relationships can accelerate biological aging and increase health risks, emphasizing the importance of distancing from negative social connections.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says the hardest part of watching your parents age isn't the physical decline - it's the moment you realize they've started performing competence the same way you performed adulthood when you were younger - Silicon Canals

Older adults often use compensation strategies to adapt to cognitive decline, employing rehearsed behaviors to maintain normalcy in conversations.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

The forgotten generation isn't the young people struggling to find their place in the world - it's the retirees sitting in fully paid-off houses with lifetimes of experience, waiting for a phone call that the modern world no longer knows it's supposed to make - Silicon Canals

Older adults possess valuable experience but are often overlooked and isolated in contemporary society.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

The people who grew up in houses where money was tight but the table was always set properly, the shoes always clean, and guests always fed before family - they didn't learn class from wealth, they inherited it from someone who refused to let scarcity become an excuse - Silicon Canals

Class and dignity are intertwined, with true self-respect stemming from resilience in hardship rather than wealth.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

There's a version of strength that only develops in people who had to figure out the rules of a place nobody explained to them. They don't talk about it because the people who had the rules handed to them wouldn't understand what was hard about it, and the people who also had to figure it out don't need the explanation. - Silicon Canals

Onsighting in climbing parallels navigating social systems, emphasizing perceptual capacity over resilience in understanding unwritten rules.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

The most painful version of not belonging isn't being rejected by strangers. It's sitting at your own family's dinner table, surrounded by people who share your last name, and feeling like you're watching the evening through glass. - Silicon Canals

Belonging can exist alongside profound loneliness, where one feels unseen even in the presence of family and friends.
Miscellaneous
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

First-Gen Growth Can Feel Like Belonging and Betrayal

First-generation individuals confront family expectations and unspoken mandates, balancing gratitude and obligation while pursuing opportunities that can create misunderstanding and guilt.
US politics
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Opinion: My parents thought we had made it. Now we carry papers

Federal immigration enforcement in Minnesota has created pervasive fear and behavioral changes among communities of color, prompting precautions like carrying passports and avoiding public interactions.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Weight of Being First: Eldest Daughter Syndrome

Firstborn daughters in immigrant families often grow up faster than they expect to. From a young age, they are entrusted with responsibilities that extend far beyond typical childhood expectations. These daughters take on multiple duties, including supporting their parents with language barriers, caring for their younger siblings, and serving as a bridge between their home culture and the broader society. Their experiences shape their understanding of responsibility, which in turn influences their self-worth and their pursuit of success.
Women
Left-wing politics
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

I grew up lower middle class and the first time I saw a friend's parents throw away leftovers I understood we were different-here are 9 other moments that made it clear - Silicon Canals

Growing up working-class shapes perspectives, routines, and assumptions, creating distinct approaches to life and different definitions of normal.
Parenting
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

My sisters and I had the same parents but were raised apart. It taught me there's more to siblings than meets the eye

Siblings share a family yet experience different childhoods due to birth order, family dynamics, parental evolution, and individual circumstances beyond simple personality theories.
Parenting
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I moved my kids across Asia for years. After my divorce, I returned 'home' as a single mom.

Roberta Maretti raised two children across multiple Asian cities while navigating cultural barriers, relocating frequently, and eventually returning to Europe after her divorce.
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