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fromSlate Magazine
8 hours ago

There's Only One Gift I Need. We Can Afford It, But My Husband Outright Refuses.

A woman recovered from postpartum depression seeks to buy a horse she can afford, while her husband strongly opposes horse ownership.
fromPsychology Today
11 hours ago

How to Converse With Family Members You Disagree With

When December arrives, we may feel a familiar emotional cocktail of anticipation and anxiety. No one knows how to push our buttons like family. They were, after all, often the ones who put those buttons there in the first place. Political differences. Stubborn relational patterns. Topics that feel like landmines. Or the unspoken agreements to "just not go there," even when the elephant in the room is waving its trunk.
Relationships
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
15 hours ago

Help! My Best Friend Is About to Ask Me to Be a Part of Her Wedding. I'm Honored. But There's a Problem With Her Evil Twin.

Maintain no-contact boundaries while honestly discussing expectations with the bride and offering support without sharing personal contact or accepting maid-of-honor duties if uncomfortable.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 day ago

Dear Abby: I'm afraid of what my sister will do on moving day

Legal eviction gives Blanche eight months to relocate; consult an attorney, document property condition, and consider law enforcement presence when enforcing the eviction.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
2 days ago

My Brother-in-Law Is the Worst Person in My Family. This Year, I'm Standing Up for Myself.

Decide in advance how to assert boundaries during family visits—choose between measured pushback or strategic disengagement, and prepare actions to protect your wellbeing.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 days ago

Dear Abby: I can't stand my dad's cringey pet names for his new wife

An adult child may set a boundary asking their father to stop using lovey-dovey nicknames for his new wife and use her name.
#parenting
fromIndependent
2 weeks ago
Relationships

Family estrangement is on the rise - why are so many of us going 'no contact' and what is the fallout?

fromBuzzFeed
3 weeks ago
Parenting

I'm Questioning Humanity After Reading These Pieces Of Parenting "Advice" People Have Actually Received

Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I Introduced My Son to a Classic Board Game from My Childhood. I Can't Forgive My Wife for Ruining Our Fun.

A father is furious after his wife discarded a vintage 1980 board game his son enjoyed without consulting him or their son.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I Was Staunchly Against This Present for My Kid. My In-Laws Bought It for Him Anyway.

Parents can reasonably forbid toy guns in their home and should communicate non-negotiable safety boundaries despite family disagreement.
fromIndependent
2 weeks ago
Relationships

Family estrangement is on the rise - why are so many of us going 'no contact' and what is the fallout?

fromBuzzFeed
3 weeks ago
Parenting

I'm Questioning Humanity After Reading These Pieces Of Parenting "Advice" People Have Actually Received

fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Parenting

I Introduced My Son to a Classic Board Game from My Childhood. I Can't Forgive My Wife for Ruining Our Fun.

Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 days ago

Miss Manners: The bride and groom are worth millions, but you wouldn't know it

Keeping score of gifts breeds resentment; prioritize graciousness, set personal boundaries, and avoid confronting relatives about perceived reciprocal obligations.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

I threw a potato. Mum brandished a knife would whole-family therapy save our Christmas?

Annual pre-Christmas family therapy aims to anticipate festive conflicts but often reveals entrenched tensions, awkward compromises, and performative attempts at harmony.
#inheritance
from24/7 Wall St.
6 days ago
Law

'I've already helped them enough': I inherited a $60K art collection at 52, but my half-sibling wants a share. Should I give in to their demands?

from24/7 Wall St.
6 days ago
Law

'I've already helped them enough': I inherited a $60K art collection at 52, but my half-sibling wants a share. Should I give in to their demands?

Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
6 days ago

Asking Eric: After years of insulting me, he's acting like I'm the mean one

Require direct, sincere acknowledgment and accountability from a repeatedly insulting sibling before restoring contact; accept that family support may have been lacking and unfair.
fromDefector
1 week ago

Who Can Imagine Why Anyone Would Want To Cut This Lovely Mom Out Of Her Life? | Defector

Laura Wellington is estranged from one of her adult daughters. The Connecticut 59-year-old is somewhat famous for this, in fact, or anyway famous for her response to it. Across Tiktok and Instagram, under the name "Doormat Mom," Wellington's railing against the supposed injustice done to her by a daughter she calls an "ungrateful little bastard" has brought her some 140,000 total followers.
Parenting
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
1 week ago

Tell Us The Most Toxic Thing A Family Member Has Done During The Holidays

Holiday family gatherings can be joyful but often produce toxic behaviors that disrupt celebrations and prompt people to share horror stories.
#estate-dispute
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

I Want to Invite My Sister, Her Guys, and Their Kids to Visit for the Holidays. But My Parents Have Issued a Big Threat.

A family hosts their polyamorous sister and her children despite parents' refusal to accept her relationship.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

Help! Our Grandmother Gave Us a Clear Rule for a Precious Family Heirloom. My Sister Violated It.

Prioritize repairing sibling relationships over an heirloom dress, forgiving careless actions unless they reflect an ongoing pattern of selfishness.
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

Help! My Twin Swears I'm Out to Get Her. Uh, All I Did Was Deny Her Very Bizarre Demand for My Eggs.

I had a learning disorder, and my sister would constantly correct people and say she wasn't the "stupid" one-I was. My sister started the college track in ninth grade while I went to a middling school. Our parents did their best to treat us equally and celebrate our accomplishments, but you really can't compare taking a beauty school test to getting a master's at 21.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago

Harriette Cole: A car crash wrecked my daughters' relationship

My older daughter got into a car accident while driving my younger daughter's car. The damage amounted to a few thousand dollars, and my older daughter did not want to pay for it. I offered to cover the expenses in hopes that it would settle the dust between them, but it didn't. My youngest feels that her sister should've at least offered to help cover the costs and accuses her sister of always being careless.
Parenting
#early-retirement
from24/7 Wall St.
2 weeks ago
Retirement

Man With $8.5 Million Net Worth Faces Family Opposition to Early Retirement at Age 40

A 40-year-old with $8.5M net worth, a costly home, and rental income can likely retire near $10M, but faces family and religious objections to early retirement.
from24/7 Wall St.
1 month ago
Business

I'm 40 with a net worth of $8.5 million and want to retire early but my in-laws think it's immoral - what should I do?

Early retirement is financially feasible given current assets and projected earnings, but family religious and moral objections create significant interpersonal conflict.
from24/7 Wall St.
1 month ago
Business

I'm 40 with a net worth of $8.5 million and want to retire early but my in-laws think it's immoral - what should I do?

Real estate
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

It's still not OK, boomer: younger Americans are flailing and mad as hell

Young couples resist traditional wedding registries and cash gifts because they already have household goods and face unaffordable housing, delaying homeownership into their 40s.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

You don't need alcohol on Christmas Day. It may be far more enjoyable if you stay sober | The modern mind

Peter and I began by examining the gap between his fantasy of how Christmas should be celebrated and the reality of his actual Christmas celebrations in years past. Part of Peter's fantasy was that everyone in his family would get along well and have fun together on Christmas Day. The reality, however, was that his family invariably pick fights with each other, especially a few drinks in, and find fault with his cooking, his home and the way he is raising his young kids.
Mental health
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

My Mom Saw Something on My Phone That She Didn't Like. Her Response Has Been Horrible-and Hypocritical.

An 18-year-old faces reinstated parental phone restrictions and maternal disapproval of their gay sexuality and seeks to regain digital autonomy and confront bias.
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
2 weeks ago

23 Disney Guests Who Left Their Manners (And Common Sense) At Home

A large extended family cut into a Disneyland ride line, upsetting children; the upset family's husband confronted the grandmother in her language, silencing her.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

My Husband Isn't Thrilled Our Adult Son Moved Back in With Us-and He's Making It Everyone's Problem

A 30-year-old son living at home due to scarce, expensive housing has created household tension, conflicts, and safety risks, fueled by resentment and unmet expectations.
Miscellaneous
fromIndependent
2 weeks ago

Garda pleads guilty to punching his daughter in the face in 'most cruel' assault

Garda George Magdelina (43) punched his 21-year-old daughter in the face during an argument about the smell of food he was cooking.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

My Mother-in-Law Did Something Unforgivable at Our Anniversary Party. My Husband Thinks She'll Behave at Our Next Shindig, But I Don't.

Have the husband set clear behavioral and alcohol limits with his mother and make her attendance conditional on her agreement to comply.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago

Dear Abby: I've saved up for an exotic dream trip. Is it OK to go without my wife?

Negotiate respectful compromises for solo and shared travel while protecting mental health by limiting contact with verbally abusive family members.
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
3 weeks ago

This Holiday Host Is Charging Their Family To Attend Dinner, And People Have Many THOUGHTS

A family imposed a $100 minimum per household for a Thanksgiving potluck, prompting a family to refuse attendance after being publicly shamed about their income.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

I Volunteered to Host the Holidays This Year. One Guest's Outrageous Demands Have Me Tempted to Call It Off.

A host may reasonably refuse to accommodate unreasonable, controlling guest demands that require altering or cleaning the host's home and undermine household boundaries.
fromBuzzFeed
3 weeks ago

43 Vile, Monstrous, Unhinged, Boundary-Crossing In-Laws Who Need To Be Put In Their Place Right Now

It should have been a red flag when she walked up to the altar beside her son and said, 'You don't have to do this.' Eventually, he told her to sit, and we finished the wedding. She went through my drawers and complained to him about my pricey underwear, only to find out they had been a gift from him.
Relationships
fromVulture
3 weeks ago

The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City Recap: Spilling Tea

They're still reeling from the failure of their business with Whitney blaming Justin for taking them down the MLM rabbit hole. She resents him and is mad at herself for trusting him. Part of the reason this show is a success is that the women at its center understand that the secret formula is brutal honesty. Whereas lesser Housewives try to present the best version of themselves and hide the embarrassing skeletons in their closets,
Television
#childcare
fromTVovermind
1 month ago
Parenting

Woman Makes Sister Cry When She Explains Why She Agrees To Watch Brother's Kids And Not Hers

fromTVovermind
1 month ago
Parenting

Woman Makes Sister Cry When She Explains Why She Agrees To Watch Brother's Kids And Not Hers

#boundaries
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago
Relationships

Help! I Sent My Stepmother a Simple, Boundary-Setting Text. I Was Not Prepared for the Bomb She Dropped in Return.

fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago
Relationships

Help! I Sent My Stepmother a Simple, Boundary-Setting Text. I Was Not Prepared for the Bomb She Dropped in Return.

Parenting
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago

Dear Abby: I don't want kids, but then who will take care of me when I'm old?

Choosing to remain child-free requires personal financial and legal planning to secure care and support in old age.
#thanksgiving
fromBuzzFeed
3 weeks ago
Food & drink

36 People Who Completely Ruined Thanksgiving By Being Rude, Trashy, Or Just Totally Clueless

fromPsychology Today
1 month ago
Relationships

A Recipe for Getting Along on Thanksgiving

Anticipating negative family interactions can provoke behaviors that create self-fulfilling conflicts; acting warmly "as if" can disrupt that cycle and improve outcomes.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago
Mindfulness

How To Navigate Thanksgiving Stress Without Losing Your Mind

Control personal responses and regulate emotions to protect peace during Thanksgiving rather than attempting to change others.
fromBuzzFeed
3 weeks ago
Food & drink

36 People Who Completely Ruined Thanksgiving By Being Rude, Trashy, Or Just Totally Clueless

Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

My Mom Just Disinvited Me and My Husband From the Holidays. I Can't Believe Her "Reason."

A parent excluding a pregnant daughter from holidays to spare an infertile sister causes anger; prioritize setting boundaries and decide if confronting family helps.
fromThe Nation
4 weeks ago

The Inexplicable Logic of Contact Sports

This, I learned, is known as a B'nei Mitzvah. Through a series of misadventures, it fell on the day of the Australian Rules Football (AFL) Grand Final, a day that is, in essence, the Australian equivalent of Super Bowl Sunday. I have three older brothers who all love the AFL, but it's my younger sister who is our family's most devoted fan.
Books
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
4 weeks ago

While Staying at My Sister's, I Accidentally Opened a $300 Bottle of Wine. I'm Not Proud of What Happened Next.

Admit the accidental use and offer to replace the expensive bottle to preserve family trust and avoid long-term conflict.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
4 weeks ago

Help! My Girlfriend Gives Everyone in Her Life a Gift From the Same Place. My Family Is Insulted.

Value a partner's sincere, charitable gift choices; prioritize compatibility over offended relatives and redirect expectations or money when appropriate.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 weeks ago

Asking Eric: Because of the dispute about the dress, I skipped the wedding. Now the bride won't speak to me.

I told my goddaughter I would contribute $500 to the wedding dress. She picked out a dress without consulting me that cost nearly 10 times that much and sent me a picture of the receipts. She said she had heard that I would pay for all of the dress. Her mother got involved and it ended up a huge mess.
Relationships
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

Why We Hold Grudges: The Psychology of Whether to Forgive

Expectations to forgive or behave 'normally' can trigger anticipatory anxiety, shame, and make forgiveness difficult due to self-protective defenses and trauma.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Asking Eric: My son has video of me in a drunken rage, but he won't show it to me

Now is not the time to see those videos. I don't think either of you is in the place to navigate the emotions they're going to dredge up. Moreover, if and when you do see them, that act needs to have a recovery-focused purpose. If they will help you make more specific amends or if he needs you to see something specific so that you can process together, that's one thing. But it doesn't sound like that's where either of you is at present.
Mental health
#elder-care
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

Help! I Accidentally Sent My Mother a Gift My Husband Was Going to Give Me ... in Private. Now We Might Have to Cancel Christmas.

An apology from the husband won't resolve the mother's entrenched hostility; prioritize setting boundaries or avoiding holiday contact instead.
#wedding-etiquette
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Woman told her sister three weeks before she was killed she would have to let murder accused son 'go'

A woman told her sister three weeks before she was killed that she would have to let her murder accused son "go", but the deceased "didn't want to hear it", a jury has heard.
Law
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

The Entire Family Has Officially Banned My Sister's Stepdaughters. They Deserve It.

Two stepdaughters' persistent bullying and an absent father's lack of discipline led the family to ban them, causing conflict with their mother.
Parenting
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

17 People Who Were Raised By "Karens" Reveal Their Parents' Most Entitled Public Meltdowns

Entitled parents publicly humiliate others through selfish, dramatic, and petty behaviors that prioritize their wants over others' dignity.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

Bride "Furious" After Sister Refused To Attend Her Child-Free Wedding

A parent declined a sister-in-law's child-free destination wedding because no childcare existed and refusing to leave their one-year-old alone took precedence.
fromLos Angeles Times
1 month ago

Meet Alemeda, a daring new voice of Gen Z rock

we got into a huge fight - stuff that had just built up till that moment - and I was like, 'You Know what? I'm leaving.' Then she did this weird thing where she called the cops on me but also changed the locks and moved to Africa.
Music
US politics
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Jimmy Kimmel's wife opens up about tension with pro-Trump family

Family relationships fractured after relatives' support for Donald Trump conflicted with Molly McNearney and Jimmy Kimmel's values and personal loyalty.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Dear Abby: I'm the same size I've always been, and my in-laws need to shut up about it

I am a 66-year-old woman, married with two daughters. I am 5-foot-2 and weigh 108 pounds. This is not something new. But whenever there is a gathering with my in-laws, at least one of them says I need to put meat on my bones in those exact words. I think it's rude and offensive. I am certainly not telling any of them to take meat off their bones. I cannot help my size, metabolism or genetics, and I am tired of the comments.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Dear Abby: She insulted my kids, but my husband says we need to fix things with her

She and I were best friends for the last 25 years. She's 55 and divorced, with a grown daughter but no man in her life. She's extremely lonely and has only us as emotional support. During the last year, she has had to move her 78-year-old mother (with whom she has a tumultuous relationship) in with her. Justine's daughter has distanced herself from her mother because Justine has erratic moods.
Relationships
fromAol
1 month ago

After Being Fired from the Family Business She Helped Build, Woman Refuses to Hand Over the Website

A woman sought advice from the Reddit community after she was fired from her family's business and refused to transfer the company's website that she had built and maintained for years. When they demanded she transfer the complex website she had built, she refused, offering instead to let them copy it and take the domain. Now, she's wondering if she's wrong for standing her ground
Careers
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Harriette Cole: My co-worker complains that I make everyone's job harder

A nurse’s extra assistance to a quadriplegic patient created coworker conflict and prompted a recommendation to inform a supervisor.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Dear Abby: My daughter opened the package of family photos, and now we're not speaking

He asked me if there was anything I wanted from the house, and I told him I wanted the photographs of my children when they were young, which I had sent to my mother over the years. I suggested he send them to my daughter in New York, as she will be coming to visit me in a few months and can bring them. My brother mailed the pictures, and my daughter opened the package.
Relationships
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

Every Month, My Dad's Sibling Gets a Large Sum of Money From Him. This is Getting Hard to Stomach.

Adult children should discuss and potentially renegotiate informal posthumous financial gifts when family circumstances change and caregiving burdens shift.
Writing
fromNature
1 month ago

Anosophoros

An exiled nanobiotechnologist flees into a post-collapse wasteland with her lab rat companion, choosing survival and loyalty over family approval.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Asking Eric: They get angry that their lease is never renewed. I know why.

Severe clutter by adult children can create safety risks; options include reporting hazards to 311/fire-department hoarding teams or avoiding confrontation to preserve relationships.
Television
fromwww.esquire.com
1 month ago

Stranger Things' Star Gaten Matarazzo on Dustin's Fate, the Final Season, and His Next Act

A thirteen-year-old actor moves to Atlanta for a seven-month Stranger Things shoot, enduring poverty, school failure, and family conflict before recommitting to the role.
Law
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I Control My Late Parents' Trust. My Family Is Threatening to Never Speak to Me Again Depending on What I Do With It.

Trust assets should be preserved for the named beneficiaries; the trustee should resist claims from the brother or his girlfriend and prioritize niece and nephew.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

Help! I Warned My Mom Not to Give Her Precious Heirloom to My Daughter. Now She's Paying the Consequences.

A gifted family heirloom was sold by an adult daughter to buy drugs, creating family conflict and prompting the parent to set temporary boundaries.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Daughter Has an Unorthodox Proposal for Keeping Her Wedding Drama-Free

Prioritize a peaceful wedding by inviting only one volatile parent or choosing the grandparent the couple feels closest to, rather than leaving it to chance.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Dear Abby: We want to punish our granddaughter for using her stepdad's name

Grandparents feel insulted when 14-year-old granddaughter uses her stepfather's last name and threaten to withdraw support; advice warns against retaliatory actions and urges calm discussion.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Dear Abby: The DNA test proves me right, but my sister keeps spreading these lies

Confront false, harmful family accusations with documented proof and set firm boundaries; avoid offering or encouraging false hope to seriously ill relatives.
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

A MAGA Mom On SNAP Is Furious After Her Relative Refused To Lend Her Grocery Money

🔥 Full coverage and conversation on Politics A Facebook post from a MAGA voter on SNAP is going viral after she called out her mother-in-law for refusing to lend her grocery money because she decided to vote for Donald Trump. 'I'm so anxious about this whole shutdown. My husband's [a] veteran using his GI bill for school. We get food stamps since I'm disabled and he's in school,' the post read.
US politics
Parenting
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

A Mom Is Kicking Her Pregnant Teen Out Of The House, And Her Husband Isn't Happy About It

A retired mother told her pregnant 17-year-old to find independent living before the baby arrives to avoid becoming the child’s primary caregiver during retirement.
Parenting
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Dear Abby: I picked my baby's name, and now I'm told a hypothetical child has dibs

Parents should choose their child's name based on their own wishes and not yield to relatives' demands or entitlement.
Dining
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

You be the judge: should my sister buy new crockery and cutlery?

A resident wants matching, intact kitchenware and sharp knives to feel more adult, present food well, and feel at home while cohabiting with an artist sister.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Dear Abby: I slapped my boyfriend's grandfather so hard he fell off his chair

A woman who was groped defended herself and should not apologize; the perpetrator and family should be held accountable.
Television
fromVulture
2 months ago

The Lowdown Recap: Dale's Double Life

Betty Jo strategically allies with powerful figures, revealing herself as cunning and central to the Washberg family's real-estate and inheritance conflict.
California
fromSFGATE
2 months ago

Timeline narrows as search continues for missing California girl

Nine-year-old Melodee Buzzard vanished around August; authorities report her mother is uncooperative while family members and school officials press for information.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Sister Makes Money for Her Kid in an Unconventional Way. Our Mom Just Found Out and Is Going to Ruin Both Their Lives.

Warn the sister and persuade the mother not to call CPS; treat OnlyFans as legitimate work that can support parenting while keeping children unexposed.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

Help! My Son Is Doing Something Very Unconventional in His Marriage. His Dad Is Furious.

Respect and support a son's voluntary decision to take his spouse's last name instead of deriding him for preserving her family legacy.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Sister Has Issued an Absurd Wedding Demand. If I Say No, I Fear What Will Happen.

A professional baker offered a discounted $450 wedding cake instead of giving away a $1,000 cake and faced family pressure and threats of exclusion.
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