In 1976, her book "The Hite Report: A Nationwide Study of Female Sexuality" had become a huge best-seller. Its main takeaway was the then startling revelation that most women achieved orgasm not by means of vaginal intercourse alone-or what Hite, to the sniggering discomfiture of many audiences, often referred to as penile "thrusting"-but through manual or oral stimulation of the clitoris.
My husband and I have a great sex life that I love. He gets me off consistently with his fingers on my clit, and my orgasms are body-shattering and euphoric. However, ever since I first had sex, I've always been a little surprised and disappointed by how little sensation I feel in my vaginal canal. I can feel a penis, fingers, and toys go in, but once they're in, it's sort of a vague sensation of fullness, and nice, but not much.
Some women can't orgasm at all, or only with a very specific and sustained effort. Others lose interest or are sore after one or two. Still more, as you describe your current partner, can have several or even dozens of orgasms. Some of those women find that each successive orgasm is more intense than the last-having several orgasms is part of reaching satisfaction, and may be part of how they reach "quality."
When you flip the Lick around, things look more complicated-especially if you're new to suction play-but if you take your time to understand these features, you'll be a happy camper. On this end, you have a suction cup and a tongue-shaped clitoral stimulator. Remove the cup-just a quick twist and it's off-you can easily access the flicking tongue. The tongue has three speeds that, with a bit of water-based lube, are meant to mimic the sensation of oral sex.
