"My husband and I have a great sex life that I love. He gets me off consistently with his fingers on my clit, and my orgasms are body-shattering and euphoric. However, ever since I first had sex, I've always been a little surprised and disappointed by how little sensation I feel in my vaginal canal. I can feel a penis, fingers, and toys go in, but once they're in, it's sort of a vague sensation of fullness, and nice, but not much."
"My husband and I sometimes have sex when he wakes up and initiates. Twice, he's woken me, and I've slowly come to awareness as he touches me, and something about being asleep and slowly waking makes my vaginal canal feel electrified. It's like I have nerve endings and sensations I didn't know even existed. Every thrust of his fingers or dick is nearly magical."
"I want sex like this all the time! Is there any way I can train my vagina to have this sensitivity when I'm fully conscious? When I thought "pleasant but unremarkable" was all my vagina was capable of feeling, I was satisfied with it and the delights of my clit. But now that I know I'm physically capable of a vagina that really feels, I want it. How can I crack this c"
The writer describes a satisfying sex life where clitoral stimulation reliably produces intense orgasms while vaginal penetration usually registers only as a pleasant, vague fullness. Previous partners and current husband provide enjoyable thrusting, but vaginal sensation typically remains limited. Twice, during slow awakenings initiated by the husband, vaginal sensitivity dramatically increased, producing electrified, nearly magical sensations during penetration. The writer expresses a strong desire to replicate that heightened vaginal feeling while fully awake and asks whether it is possible to train or otherwise change vaginal sensitivity to achieve penetration-driven orgasm more consistently.
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