"In theory, you and your partner could do a significant amount of exploring to see what feels good for you and what he might be able to do during penetration to give you an orgasm. This does require patience, though, and the kind of guy who gets hurt feelings when a woman doesn't have an orgasm from penetration might not have that patience."
"What do the details of your sex toy use and manual masturbation look like? Is everything focused on the glans of your clitoris (the little nub and hood), or are there other areas of your anatomy in play? If any part of the inside of your vagina is involved in how you get off, that's an area you should aim to include with various angles during penetration."
"There's this common misconception, descending from the ideas of the neurologist Sigmund Freud, that women are supposed to "mature" into vaginal orgasms. Famed sexologists made quick work of debunking Freud's theory, but the idea persists today-alongside another, related notion that virile manhood is predicated on being able to make a partner come using only their penis. Men who fall for this trap get all tangled up in their egos;"
Penis-in-vagina intercourse does not reliably produce orgasm for many people; orgasms commonly result from clitoral stimulation, manual stimulation, oral sex, or sex toys. Partners can experiment with angles, internal touching, and incorporating the parts of the vagina that are involved in arousal to try to reproduce sensations during penetration. Clitoral glans stimulation and other external or internal areas should be identified and included. Achieving penetration orgasms requires patience and emotional flexibility from both partners; hurt feelings and rigid beliefs about masculinity can hinder progress. Historical notions that women 'mature' into vaginal orgasms are outdated and misleading.
Read at Slate Magazine
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