#sexual-exploration

#sexual-exploration

It's completely understandable that you'd want to confront your wife for cheating, but I'm going to encourage you to be practical here. You have the ability to set the tone. If you weren't really bothered by it, or if the turn-on majorly outweighed your bother, it may not be useful to stage a full-on confrontation. A more effective route could be for you to just say that you know what's up-you saw it with your own eyes-and it really turned you on.

By the end, the sex scenes many and varied though they may be are just a bagatelle. Partly this is because there is no false hope offered here. None of the sexy set pieces are a full escape from reality. The series is based on a true story and the podcast made about Molly Kochan's decision to cram years of sexual experience into the little time she was told she had left before metastasised breast cancer killed her.

Since my wife died, I've reconnected with my sexuality. I've realised that my fantasies are actually available to me, not just something I live out through porn. And when I met Sophie, I discovered there's been a sexual revolution going on and I'd been missing out. In the early days, Sophie would wake me up in the middle of the night to have sex and we'd whisper fantasies to each other.

This goes beyond sexuality, in situations such as new parenthood or taking on mentorship roles, but I'll stay in my lane. You enjoyed yourself. You had fun. Consider what qualms or drawbacks might be underneath the fact that your role in the encounter was at odds with your concept of your identity. If there aren't any, I'd say proceed. If there are, weigh them.

"Worst case, I could just leave early. But I actually ended up having a really good time at my first party. And I realize that it's not what people usually think it is."