Periods of celibacy enable clarity and increased productivity, allowing focus on other aspects of life. After such periods, re-engaging with sex brings renewed enjoyment. A relationship with Leon evolved from shared sexual exploration, contrasting with his previous vanilla experiences. The introduction of new ideas and practices, such as BDSM and role play, has sparked excitement and a sense of exploration in their sex life. The naturalness of their intimacy without the need for scheduling deepens their bond.
I've taken periods of celibacy in my life, as I think sex can be a bit distracting sometimes. It brings me clarity.
Removing sex gives you more headspace to focus on other things, and those periods have been some of the most productive of my life.
He was going through a divorce at the time, and part of that was due to a dead bedroom situation where they very rarely had sex.
There's quite a seductive element of being a bit like a teacher. Before me, he'd had very vanilla sex with the same person for about 15 years.
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