Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 hours agoThere's a version of clarity that only arrives in your 40s where you suddenly understand your father wasn't distant because he didn't care. He was performing certainty for thirty years and the exhaustion of never once saying 'I don't know' eventually made him unreachable. - Silicon Canals
Emotionally distant fathers often performed certainty to absorb household anxiety, which hollowed them out rather than reflecting lack of care or emotional capacity.












