My Wife Says She's Too Pregnant to Give Me Pleasure. I Disagree.
Briefly

In response to a husband's concerns about his wife’s lack of sexual desire during pregnancy, the column emphasizes the physical and hormonal changes women experience. The response highlights that the husband’s frustration stems from a selfish viewpoint, as his wife’s discomfort makes sexual activities challenging. It advises him to respect her boundaries and seek personal fulfillment instead, emphasizing that true generosity in a relationship doesn’t come with expectations of reciprocation.
"Your wife is not being selfish, she's being pregnant. You are the one who is being selfish."
"Pregnancy is uncomfortable and it can become increasingly so as time passes... the hormonal changes may result in low libido, among other things."
Read at Slate Magazine
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