Perhaps, Miss Manners suggests, you can keep your nose out of it and handle it by saying, I'm so sorry that you're hurt, but unfortunately, I only have time to do my own job today. Perhaps you can speak to the manager about cutting back if you're not feeling up to working this week.
Most crowdfunding sites have an option to donate anonymously, and I usually do so, because I don't need personal credit for what I consider a private expression of sympathy.
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