Miss Manners: He insulted me, then asked for a hug. I am done with him.
Briefly

The author, president of an LGBTQ social club, shares an experience where a member from a different club expressed his refusal to participate in LGBTQ events, citing biblical condemnation. Although he attempted to show goodwill with a hug, the author seeks advice on how to avoid interacting with him at an upcoming regional event. Miss Manners advises against indulging the man's prejudices and suggests diverting attention to others or event refreshments to sidestep interaction while also being prepared to deflect unwanted hugs.
Miss Manners suggests developing an interest in others or the event refreshments to avoid engaging with someone whose views you find unacceptable.
The writer finds it perplexing that a man would express discriminatory views but then seek to hug, thinking it would resolve any tension.
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