I Gave My Niece a Roof Over Her Head and Found Her a Job. What a Mistake.
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Your niece is 21 and must take responsibility for her life; it’s time to enforce boundaries and tough love, despite your sister's feelings.
It’s vital for your sister and her daughter to understand adult responsibilities; allowing manipulation will lead to long-term issues and family strain.
Read at Slate Magazine
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