Help! I've Tried Everything to Find a Woman Who Will Date Me. It's Impossible for a Guy Like Me.
Briefly

The article discusses the struggles of a 12-year married man who finds himself single and unable to connect romantically due to age and social dynamics. After being unexpectedly dumped in two dating relationships, he reflects on his emotional intelligence and ability to navigate friendships with women. Living in a small town adds to his sense of isolation as he yearns for connection but feels marginalized in today's dating scene, often described as an incel, though not harboring bitterness towards women.
In a small town, dating is particularly tough for older men, often leading to feelings of isolation and rejection. This demographic struggle can intensify their emotional challenges.
Despite having dated, the feeling of being cast aside by text can deeply impact one's self-esteem and emotional health, showcasing the harshness of modern dating.
Navigating friendships with women can be complicated when underlying romantic feelings exist, leading to confusion about social dynamics and expectations.
The concept of incel isn't always linked to hostility; some, like myself, simply feel marginalized in the dating world due to age or context.
Read at Slate Magazine
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