The next time you take this friend to lunch, if she asks to order something for her husband, tell her it's fine with you, but his portion of the check will be on her.
If that's what partners do for each other, it shouldn't be a one-way street.
When you introduce your daughter to someone who hasn't met her before, say, I'd like you to meet my oldest daughter, Rebe.
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