The letter writer describes a longstanding issue in her book club where one member, Suzy, is known for her opinionated and often abrasive comments. This has reached a tipping point, prompting the writer to seek advice on how to handle the situation. The response suggests a candid conversation with Suzy about how her behavior affects the group's enjoyment, emphasizing the need for specific examples to convey the impact clearly. It acknowledges the writer's frustration and encourages her to assert her right to a comfortable and enjoyable experience within the club.
If you’ve tolerated Suzy’s unyielding comments for thirty years, it’s understandable that your patience has waned; approach her directly about how her behavior impacts the group.
You can kindly and directly tell Suzy that her loud opinions make it difficult for you to enjoy the book club experience; give her specific examples.
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