Asking Eric: I said I'd pay to come to the wedding, but the bride still said no
Briefly

There’s three sides to every story: your side, my side, and the truth. It seems clear that you have different understandings of the depth of your friendship.
Part of being in a friendship is listening when a friend says we've hurt them and then making it right. To get closure, reaching out to clear the air is essential.
You wanted her to reach out in response to your hurt, but did you actually tell her you were hurt? A conversation is the only way to get to a shared truth.
Neither of you may be wrong here. Friendship requires communication, especially when misunderstandings arise, to foster understanding and potentially, reconciliation.
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