Alternating custody over holidays was tough. My son now spends time with both me and his dad, and it works better for everyone.
Briefly

When my son was little, his father and I went through a custody trial and agreed on a holiday-sharing schedule, ensuring a balanced time with each parent.
While my son's father and I initially stuck to the holiday-sharing schedule, it became evident he missed the parent he wasn't with, prompting a more flexible arrangement.
Our new arrangement is informal, allowing us to adapt plans based on our families' needs and previous year's holiday divisions, creating a realistic solution.
I've realized that not only does his father deserve to spend time with our son on holidays, but our son also prefers it that way.
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