Modern Morals: My husband quit alcohol and feels great, but now I feel I have to hide my drinking from him

The article explores the impact of one partner's decision to stop drinking on the dynamics of their relationship. The author's husband ceased alcohol consumption six months ago due to health concerns and personal motivations, leading to a noticeable shift in their shared experiences, particularly regarding social drinking. This change has created a growing emotional distance, as the author feels the need to conceal her drinking habits. The article reflects on how such lifestyle changes can significantly alter relational closeness and shared activities.

My husband gave up drinking six months ago. It was partly to do with a health kick he's on and partly to do with some issues he was having. He felt alcohol was beginning to affect his motivation, and the hangovers were getting the better of him.

There's a growing gulf between us as sharing bottles of wine used to be a big part of our lives - it feels like I have to hide my drinking around him.

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