"We want to know why. We want to be heard, understood and find a way forward," said Gary McClain, emphasizing that closure is about achieving peace of mind, not revenge.
Closure can mean different things to different people. McClain defines it as the pursuit of peace of mind by achieving clarity about a situation, not a quest for vengeance.
Intentionality means understanding your motives behind your desire to seek closure. Ask yourself: "What am I hoping to accomplish if I were to talk with this person?"
The worst way to initiate a potentially difficult conversation is to ambush the other person. Instead, extend a verbal or written invitation for an open dialogue.
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