3 Hidden Reasons Why Your Life Feels Lonely-and What Helps
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Consumer culture has transformed family dynamics, pushing parents to handle all needs independently without communal support. Childhood experiences of loneliness stem from the lack of immediate, caring responses from parents, often overwhelmed by their responsibilities. Research shows that in some hunter-gatherer societies, children's cries prompt a swift communal response, contrasting sharply with the isolated and hurried responses in modern households. The pressure on families to remain small and self-sufficient contributes to feelings of loneliness and disconnection. Consumer culture paradoxically encourages this isolation while facilitating corporate connections, highlighting a disparity in support systems for individuals versus businesses.
According to anthropologist Nikhil Chaudhary and her team of researchers - who observed a hunter-gatherer tribe in the Republic of Congo - within 25 seconds or less villagers responded to children's cries.
Consumer culture has insisted families go it alone, discouraging them from growing their circle and sharing life's load with others, resulting in isolation.
In our world, our childhood bedroom often stays still, just four walls, empty air, and the ache of waiting; many parents are distracted and half-there.
It's strange that consumer culture hands our parents a mug of coffee with the words World's Best Dad & Mom written on them while demanding they manage alone.
Read at Psychology Today
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