Wise Effort in the Bedroom
Briefly

The article explores the idea of applying a nightmare review concept typically used for books to one's sexual life. It asserts that many barriers preventing authentic expression in books also apply to sex, such as fear of embarrassment and lack of engagement. By reflecting on these 'bad reviews', individuals can confront obstacles that lead to unsatisfactory intimacy. The piece concludes by suggesting that curiosity is key to transforming sexual experiences, highlighting three essential skills to help rekindle playful and connected intimacy in relationships.
"They held back, didn't let go, were so focused on looking good, it never really felt that good." (Stuck in their head)
Read at Psychology Today
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