The author reflects on the transformation of his sexual experiences from being a transactional duty within a 25-year sexless marriage to sharing a rewarding and pleasurable connection with Josephine. They developed a strong friendship prior to intimacy, which reduced his anxiety about being vulnerable. With Josephine's confidence and encouragement, he learns that sex can be a fun, shared activity rather than a performance. Despite some age-related insecurities and medication side effects, the couple focuses on intimacy without pressure, fostering a supportive environment for their relationship.
Sex used to feel like an obligation or transaction, now it feels like a team activity in pursuit of pleasure. With her encouragement, I'm learning to take charge.
Josephine is confident in herself and assures me that I'm good enough and that my penis isn't too small. She reminds me that sex is fun, it isn't a performance.
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