The article discusses the concept of 'dry begging,' a term used informally to describe a method where individuals hint at their needs or dissatisfaction rather than articulating them directly. Therapists Aerial Cetnar and Tori-Lyn Mills emphasize that this behavior often stems from insecurity or learned patterns from childhood. While it might feel like an easier way to communicate desires, dry begging can undermine relationships by shifting responsibilities and weaponizing emotions, ultimately proving ineffective in the long term.
"Dry begging is when someone indirectly asks for something. There's a need there, but they're not stating it clearly," said Aerial Cetnar, a therapist... "Instead of making a straightforward request or voicing a direct want, someone who is dry begging hints at a need or makes a vague complaint..."
"It can come from a place of insecurity, fear or manipulation... folks grew up with and learned as a way to get their needs met," said Tori-Lyn Mills, a licensed clinical professional counselor..."
"While it can feel easier than directly asking for what you want, dry begging really isn't meant for the long haul..."
"Dry begging can weaponize emotion and empathy while also shifting responsibility in a situation... specifically in romantic relationships," added Mills.
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