"That's probably a factor in your wife's rejection of your kink as dirty and unhygienic. Another possible aspect is that taking underwear out of the laundry basket for sexual use tends to cause the owner of the underwear to feel invaded or violated unless consent has been given, so your wife's use of language like "weird" may have a layer of empathy for the possessors of panties past."
"Talking openly, working with a couples counselor who specializes in sex, and negotiating boundaries could leave you with both your marriage intact and some kind of agreement that allows you to satisfy your desires. In case you're tempted to continue sneaking around behind your wife's back as you have been, hoping she remains oblivious, know that she may already be aware and is"
A married man has a fetish for the feminine musky smell of worn underwear and secretly buys used panties online after his wife rejects the kink as dirty and unhygienic. Many women internalize messages that genitals are morally dirty, which contributes to hygiene-focused responses. Removing underwear from shared laundry for sexual use can make others feel invaded or violated without consent. The person must decide whether the kink or the marriage is more important. Open communication, negotiating boundaries, and working with a sex-specialized couples counselor may allow compromise. Continuing secret behavior risks violating trust and may already be known by the partner.
Read at Slate Magazine
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