"Being the strong one for long enough becomes one of the most reliable pathways to profound loneliness in later life. A role built entirely on giving, and never on receiving, leaves you with no infrastructure for the one thing old age eventually requires: allowing yourself to need something."
"Research examining emotion suppression and its relationship to loneliness found a significant positive correlation between suppressing emotional expression and experiencing loneliness. People who habitually conceal their inner emotional states experience deeper social isolation over time."
The strong one in a family often takes on the role of caretaker, providing support without seeking help. This role, while initially fulfilling, can lead to loneliness as it creates an inability to express needs. Research shows that suppressing emotions correlates with increased feelings of isolation. Over time, the strong one may find themselves without the necessary infrastructure to ask for help, leading to deeper social isolation despite being surrounded by loved ones.
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