"Natural variation in vulvas means that most sexually experienced men will either make a polite inquiry or say nothing, even if they do notice something different."
"If a partner broaches the subject, what you've written in your letter should be sufficient for someone you're just starting to get to know."
"You might run into someone who is shocked that anything other than a classic 'coin slot' vulva exists, which reflects their issues, not yours."
Many women experience natural variation in their vulvas, and surgical interventions are not uncommon. Most sexually experienced partners are likely to either not notice or make a polite inquiry if they do. If a partner brings up the topic, sharing your experience can be sufficient. However, some individuals may react poorly due to ignorance or misconceptions about anatomy. It's important to remember that any negative reaction reflects their issues, not yours.
Read at Slate Magazine
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