Eleanor describes a situation where a husband has deceived his spouse about his retirement, leading to feelings of betrayal and anger. The wife discovers the truth through pension payments, prompting a need for better communication. Eleanor emphasizes the importance of understanding what the husband was seeking that led to his dishonesty. She suggests starting with a listening approach to foster an environment for open dialogue, which is crucial before attempting to resolve the issues at hand.
It’s crucial for you to address the hard feelings arising from the betrayal, as it’s essential to understand what motivated the deceit.
Listening without judgment could foster a safe space for your husband to share his experiences and emotions related to his retirement.
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