The article reflects on the author's tumultuous relationship, characterized by red flags and dependency. Despite recognizing the unhealthy dynamic of becoming both a partner and caretaker, the author connected this behavior back to childhood experiences and the loss of a friend. A pivotal moment occurs while watching "Beautiful Boy," leading to a personal epiphany about the limitations of enabling addiction. Ultimately, the author decides to end the relationship, appreciating the strength required to let go of the need to rescue others.
I felt like, if I wasn't there to buy groceries, cook and clean, he might die.
I needed to be needed. If the person I was dating didn't need me, then what value did I have?
Because I couldn't save her, I sought romantic relationships with men or women I thought I could save instead.
I admired the strength it took to end the cycle of trying (and failing) to save his son.
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