"I've never had an orgasm. With anyone, including my current boyfriend. I don't theatrically fake orgasms. I tell my boyfriend that I have them, but that they're very subtle."
"I'm a control freak and I think my need to stay in control is linked to my inability to orgasm"
The person reports never having experienced an orgasm, with anyone, including the current boyfriend. The person clarifies that theatrical faking of orgasms does not occur. The person tells the boyfriend that orgasms occur but are very subtle. The person expresses enjoyment of sex despite the absence of orgasm. The person self-identifies as a control freak. The person connects the need to stay in control with the persistent inability to achieve orgasm. The person also notes openness with the partner about subtle or absent orgasms while maintaining concern that control influences sexual response.
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