Miss Manners: How can I keep my outings a secret from the neighbors?
Briefly

In a high-rise retirement community, residents frequently inquire about neighbors' whereabouts. A polite response such as 'Just out!' can maintain privacy. In arranging guest accommodations, reusing minimally used soap is acceptable if it is clean. College students may encounter clingy peers who demand attention. Individuals seeking personal space do not need to justify their need for solitude, but should communicate their boundaries effectively. Establishing personal time without guilt is important for mental well-being.
A cheerful response like 'Just out!' or 'Running errands!' along with a smile can effectively maintain privacy while being polite to inquisitive neighbors.
Miss Manners acknowledges the question of soap cleanliness, suggesting reused soap is acceptable as long as it passes inspection for debris.
The need for personal space is legitimate and does not require an excuse. It is acceptable to prioritize time alone over social obligations.
Setting boundaries may be challenging, especially with clingy friends, but it's important to assert one's need for personal time.
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