A reader seeks advice on how to allocate a $60,000 inheritance amidst differing opinions with her husband. She wants to pay off debts, boost emergency savings, and reduce her mortgage, while her husband prefers to vacation, invest, and save. The columnist emphasizes the importance of respectful communication in discussing financial choices. While the disagreements are significant, they reflect the couple's ability to approach differing opinions constructively. Ultimately, addressing financial priorities involves finding a compromise between reducing liabilities and enhancing liquidity.
"Although I'm not sure the word 'problems' applies here. Not just because we're talking about how you ought to spend $60,000, but also because you and your husband aren't in agreement."
"I've been writing about money and relationships long enough - and have been married long enough - that I know how rare that is to view disagreement as disrespect."
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