In routine environments, the brain minimizes the stimuli it processes, which leads to diminished interest, appreciation, and love in relationships. People may prioritize comfort or power over an ability to love and be loved. Connection requires a conscious choice, as we can decide to feel connected or disconnected. Attachment laws indicate that when attachment bonds are threatened, individuals face feelings of guilt or shame, motivating them to repair connections, regardless of who is deemed right or wrong in conflicts.
In routine environments, the brain reduces the stimuli it processes, leading to decreased interest and appreciation in relationships, fostering negative dynamics.
Connection is a mental state and a conscious choice; we can choose to feel connected or disconnected in our relationships.
We often become more concerned with feeling comfortable or powerful rather than being able to love and be loved, undermining connection.
Attachment guilt and shame function as distance regulators in relationships, motivating individuals to repair emotional bonds that are threatened.
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