The article discusses the author's decision to sever ties with an abusive parent for the safety of their children. Initially concerned about how this estrangement might affect her kids, she ultimately prioritizes their well-being. After consulting a therapist, she shares strategies for discussing the estrangement with her children, ensuring they understand it is not their fault and offering age-appropriate explanations. The author emphasizes the importance of protecting kids from harmful influences, while also validating their feelings and experiences regarding family dynamics.
"I assure my kids that the separation from their grandparent is not their fault. Nor is it their responsibility to fix it."
"As they've gotten older, my husband and I have explained a bit more the reasons why we made the decision. Our job as parents is to protect our children from harm."
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