Harriette Cole: We moved for my job, and my husband isn't happy
Briefly

The letter describes a spouse's concern for her husband who is struggling to adjust to a new town after a long-term move. He reflects a deep sense of homesickness, unhappiness in a new job, and feels isolated due to a lack of social connections. The advice given emphasizes the importance of bringing familiarity from their old town, engaging in community activities, and cultivating patience in developing new friendships. The focus is on actionable steps to help him feel more at home and counter loneliness.
While I knew the transition would be difficult, I don't think either of us fully realized just how much it would affect him.
He misses his family deeply, and not having that familiar support system nearby has been tough.
Feeling homesick can be difficult, and a quick and sincere hug from old friends can go a long way.
It takes focused and consistent effort to build relationships in a new place.
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