The advice given to the troubled woman highlights the importance of self-reflection and recognizing one's worth in a relationship. Instead of trying to change the partner who fails to be present, she is encouraged to define what she truly wants in a partner. The response suggests that if he is not meeting her needs and has shown inconsistency, it is better to disengage entirely from himâbe it through cutting off contact or avoiding places he frequents. The key to emotional liberation is accepting the reality of the situation and prioritizing her own emotional health.
Stop for a moment and sit still. Think about yourself and what you deserve. What kind of partner do you want? Somebody who will show up for you and tend to your heart, or somebody who, for whatever reason, is not physically or emotionally present for you?
If he cannot hit the ball back to you... being responsive directly to you as you need, you must accept that he is not your guy. The way to break emotionally from him is to stop engaging him.
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