The article discusses a best friend's concern about her friend's marriage, characterized by a complete lack of intimacy over nearly a decade. Despite being a supportive partner in other aspects, the husband refuses to be physically affectionate unless his wife quits drinking, a factor she turns to during her depression linked to their emotional distance. Previous attempts to communicate and consider counseling have failed, leading to despair in the friendship and the marriage. The writer seeks advice for a constructive way forward.
"The lack of intimacy has created a vicious cycle; my friend drinks when she feels depressed, but her drinking is not making her husband more affectionate."
"He has rejected going to marriage counseling and tends to shut down emotionally when my friend expresses her unhappiness or asks about his feelings."
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