In this letter to Dear Abby, a 29-year-old woman reflects on her relationship with a 36-year-old man she met while divorcing from an abusive marriage. Though they shared love and happiness for three years, the man ended their relationship due to his commitment issues. The woman believes he is 'The One', but Abby points out that mutual commitment is necessary for a lasting connection. She raises concerns about the woman's past trauma and suggests the possibility of counseling to avoid repeating unhealthy relationship patterns, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and personal growth.
"Believe me, I sympathize, but both partners have to believe the other is 'The One,' and the urge to commit appears to be definitely one-sided here."
"It would be interesting to know if you received any kind of counseling after that prior relationship, because you may need some now to make sure you don't repeat an unhealthy pattern."
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