The article discusses two separate letters to Abby regarding family issues. The first letter focuses on a brother feeling upset about his sister's withdrawal from family communication without clear reasons. He seeks advice on managing his feelings and the impact on their aging parents. The second letter concerns a husband frustrated by his wife's excessive gambling habits, which he believes are disrespectful and threatening their marriage. Both situations underscore the challenges of communication in familial relationships and the emotional toll unresolved conflicts can take.
"At first, I didn't let this bother me much, but as time goes on, I'm starting to feel really upset. Our parents are getting older and could use some support..."
"Accept that you can't change your sister. After your parents are gone and it is too late to make amends, your sister may feel guilty for her unwillingness to mend fences..."
"Family counseling might facilitate some healing, but only if everyone is willing to participate. As to your anger over your sister's behavior, it may take a session or two with a licensed psychotherapist..."
"...I've tried talking to her calmly and I've tried the angry way, too. I've gotten nowhere about this issue. I believe she's being disrespectful, which will lead to the end of our marriage."
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